About what are you most judgmental?

When I feel judgements rising within, I try to slow my thoughts and imagine walking in the others shoes for a  long while. I was once asked to write a poem about something that repelled me and I chose to look at paedophiles and though I don't condone, what they do and would do anything to protect all children, I at least have more understanding. I used to work as a nurse and once had to report a case of abuse to protect a child, it transpired that the abuse had followed through generations the abused becoming the abuser. We need to try and understand to break the cycle, judgements don't help.Here is the poem I wrote……

Plastic Dolls

Imagine three dolls,
one glass, one plastic
and one of steel.
Given identical blows
the glass doll shatters,
the plastic doll
receives a large dent
the steel doll is unaffected.

I'm the plastic doll,

Father was the hammer.
I was 8 when his tirade
smashed my world, I knew
I'd never be the same again.

Mother hated me from birth,
lashed me with her tongue
used every opportunity
to show me how much
I was despised

When Father was drunk
and incapable,she toyed
with her plastic doll
There was no affection -
and no escape. She stirred 
a seething cauldron
of sex and hate,

it bubbles to the surface,
and I can't slam the lid down.
it overflows - I wank and fantasize -

bitch, I want to throttle her
fuck you. Fuck up mother

I watch this little girl,
she's plastic, her skin is fair,
limbs delicate, she has red hair -
like mother's,